Werewolves are pretty much all made. Only one werewolf has been born (although he is the main male character of the Alpha and Omega series). The female wolf of the Alpha and Omega series has only been a werewolf for a few years and is fairly unknowledgeable about how it all works and is still trying to figure it out. Mercy, the protagonist of the other series, is a coyote, but she is dealing with werewolves, as that is her world, and she is also trying to figure out all the dynamics. A lot of both series deals with people who have been wolves long enough that they have different issues other than "falling into it and not knowing how to deal", but there are elements of that in the series as well.

I, personally, preferred the Mercy Thompson series, but I think Alpha and Omega might have more of the dynamic that interests you.

Meredith // Hufflepuff