But, even if they're NOT treated with respect, like I imagine many of the other elves at Malfoy manner weren't, then how would they even know to aim for respect? Abused children continue the cycle of abuse because they know of nothing else. Sure, they're "free" of the abuser when they reach maturity, but they then turn around and abuse their children and/or seek abusive relationships. Very few are strong enough to break the cycle like Dobby did. They might want to stay because they don't know any better and that's where education is key!

Beth | Gryffindor