i'd rather have the 12 hour rule, because then it pushes you to check it. and honestly, you know when your turn is going to come up like soon or if there are a couple people in front of you so you know KIND OF when to check it at least. and if people aren't participating in it fully then that's their own fault, other people who really want to do it and have the game go quicker don't need to wait. i think most people will go faster if there is a for sure 12 hour rule and if they get skipped once, they will go quicker the next time